If you are helping a friend or older member of your family who can no longer manage; if you help with daily needs like dressing or washing; if you take somebody to the doctors or out shopping; then you are a carer.
You may be a son or daughter; a husband or a wife; an in-law; a nephew; a neighbour; a lifelong friend. You may live together; next door or in another county. If you are providing regular help and support you are a carer.
For some of us, being a carer evolves. We take on more and more responsibilities, not realising just how involved we have become. For others, being a carer comes in a time of crisis, unplanned and unexpected. A sudden illness can turn an independent older person into someone who needs help with everyday activities.
